“Dear Nanda, I really like this guy in my church but I’m not sure if I should let him know how I feel… What should I do? Should I tell him what I’m feeling? What do you advise me?
My dears, as incredible as it may seem, emails like this keep on coming in, so I decided to write about it and clear it up here…
Please note that the Bible doesn’t give us a straight answer for questions like these, thus, it is up to us to make use of our common sense and faith.
My answer to this question is:
“What is your faith?” or “What do you have faith to do?”
Your answer is your faith, so follow it…
Now, I’ve been asked “Nanda what is your faith?”
Okay, if this is so then you want to know what I would do, right?
Sincerely speaking I am the old fashion type. When I was single I wasn’t able to approach a guy and tell him I was interested in him, I think I would have blushed out of embarrassment…
But that’s me!
I know women that are now married and were the ones who approached their partners and declared their love.
I would like to point one thing out… be very careful and be discreet!
I have a friend who has a son and as soon as he reaches the church, he is practically “attacked” by girls- it’s embarrassing!
It doesn’t look good, you see?
Use your faith but be intelligent too!
Is he godly? Is he converted? Does he have a good character?
If you still don’t know the answer to these questions, then it’s better to wait and get to know him better… During this time, who knows maybe he’ll declare himself to you!