“It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” Proverbs 25:24
The thoughts don’t stop, they’re incessant, something pushes you and you simply can’t allow anyone else have the last word.
In every argument you need to show that you are right, you have to expose your point of view, and you have to make other people accept what you want at any cost. You don’t want to listen or understand the other side and anything is reason enough to start a fight. You have no limits and you don’t know when to be silent.
You don’t have peace because when one problem is solved you always find something else to complain or fight about.
Living with someone like this is not easy.
I was counseling a person the other day and that was her greatest problem.
What’s worse is that she thought that her husband was the problem.
The brawling woman loses a lot. She loses beauty, she loses value and she loses respect.
Task #33 for Becoming a Lovelier Woman
“He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he that rules his spirit than he that takes a city.”
Try listening; we have one mouth and two ears for a reason and remember, it’s not always worth having the last word. Many times in order for you to gain, it will seem as though you are losing.